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Taking Kindle World by Storm – Starting With Sink or Swim Sale

Well, I am working very hard in 2012 to take the Kindle world by storm. I’ve lined up Pixel of Ink and E-Reader News Today ads for a couple of my books, and I’ll be experimenting with Amazon’s Kindle Select program, which means the e-book versions for a few of my titles will be exclusively available through Amazon Kindle for at least 90 days.

The current focus of my attention is my mystery novel with a touch of romance, Sink or Swim, which is on sale for 99 cents. It is scheduled to appear on Pixel of Ink this Sunday. In the meantime, it is featured on a great site called Kindle Books for a Buck (or Less), a must-read blog if you’re seeking bargain Kindle books and are eager to discover new authors.

As for Sink or Swim, I would very much appreciate tweets, Facebook likes, Google buzzing, and any other word of mouth to help get the word out. At this moment, the book is #20,188 Paid in Kindle Store. My goal is to make The Top 100 Paid List. Here is the product description from Amazon: (and at this time, the book is also available for Nook and other e-readers, as well as in trade paperback)

Reviews:
Sink or Swim was an easy read and extremely well written… I would love to see it come out as a movie one day! Stephenie LaGrossa, former contestant Survivor: Palau, Guatemala, Heroes vs. Villains

I was so excited to read this book because I loved her previous book, Twenty-Five Years Ago Today, and she did not disappoint! There was action, mystery and romance all tied into one very well-written story. Book-Club-Queen

A wonderful, clever and entertaining distraction. Coffee Time Romance and More

I thought it was a great read and kept me in suspense. Michelle Costa, former contestant Big Brother 10

Personal trainer Cassidy Novak has gained fame for starring on a hit reality show, but not only does she lose, she discovers she is being stalked. She’s also being shadowed by Zach Gallagher, a hunky photographer assigned to capture her personal moments for the local newspaper. As her former competitors get killed off one by one, Cassidy refuses to play by the stalker’s bizarre rules. When the stalker forces a showdown, Cassidy must play to win.

Bonus material (equivalent to 15 printed pages) – Includes excerpts of the author’s mystery novels Twenty-Five Years Ago Today and Dark Before Dawn, an extra scene, an excerpt of the novel The Cutting Edge by Darcia Helle, and the complete short story Only Time Can Divide Us by Maria Savva.

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Sink or Swim 6: Signs of Love’s Vaughn Jackson Plus Kindle Giveaway!

Today’s contestant on the fictional reality show Sink or Swim is Vaughn Jackson, 37 years old from San Antonio, TX. Vaughn is a character from the new book Signs of Love by Chanta Jefferson Rand. Vaughn is no stranger to reality shows, but more on that later. For now, the rules of “this” game show. Here’s a recap: the three literary characters with the highest number of unique commenters to their post will be chosen as winners at the end of the year, so be sure to leave a comment. Chanta is also giving away a gifted Kindle copy of Signs of Love to a commenter. To enter, leave your name and email address in the comments by November 15 at 11:59 p.m. EST. Here are Vaughn’s answers to the Sink or Swim 6.

1. Tell us about the book you’re from.
I’m the hero from the reality TV show romance called Signs of Love by Chanta Jefferson Rand. I get to choose my soul mate from 12 lucky bachelorettes who each have a different zodiac sign – thus the title, Signs of Love. Pretty catchy huh? Yeah, I know. The author is one smart Pisces. You can find Signs of Love on Amazon here.

2. What is something about yourself that no one else knows?
No one except my best friend and manager knows that I’m on a self-imposed hiatus from sex. I’ve got too many damn paternity suits against me, so I’m very distrustful of women. The sad thing is I’ve never even met some of the women accusing me of being their “baby daddy.” But I guess the promise of a huge pay day lures gold-diggers from around the world.

3. Tell us about an unusual job or hobby that you’ve had?
Fifteen years ago, I was the hottest singer on the R&B charts. I was known as the man with the velvet voice. But when I refused to conform to the changing trends in music, my record label turned its back on me. Ever since then, I’ve had a sour taste in my mouth for the entertainment business. But I still got it, baby. I can sing the panties off any woman.

4. What is the strangest or most exciting thing that has ever happened to you?
The most exciting thing was winning four Grammys. The strangest thing would be appearing on Signs of Love. Unfortunately, it’s the only way I can make enough money to pay the IRS the $700,000 in back taxes that I owe them. Correction: I don’t owe them – my sorry ass accountant, Willie Armstrong put all the money I made up his nose and now, the sonofabitch has been missing for six months. So, guess who’s left holding the bag?

5. What would you do if you won a million dollars?
If I won a million dollars, I would try to find a cure for Alzheimer’s. My grandmother, Elsa (who raised me because my parents cared more about drugs than children) is suffering from this devastating disease. Back in the day, she was a gorgeous German burlesque dancer. To me, she’s always been “Grams.” I provide round-the-clock care for her every need. She’s always been there for me and I intend to do the same for her.

6. Please tell us briefly about your author and list web sites.
My author’s site is www.ChantaRand.com. This site showcases all of her and links to other sites and charities she supports. Each month, a percentage of the proceeds from her books goes to charity.

Chanta’s radio show site is www.TheChantaRandShow.com. This site provides information on all the authors she interviews on her bi-monthly internet radio show. The guests are limited to romance authors only, but they have a ball (no pun intended) discussing love, romance, and all things related to the romance industry.

For newcomers, this on-line “game show” is inspired by the reality TV-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim. Mark your calendar for January 17, 2012 when Stacy and Chanta will chat about reality TV show novels on The Chanta Rand Show!

Reality Show Rundown Interview with “Bachelor Pad” Winner Natalie Getz

This is the eighth in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad, Big Brother and I Love New York, please visit this link.

Today’s interview is with Natalie Getz, who viewers will know from The Bachelor, Season 13 and Bachelor Pad. Last fall, David Good and Natalie were the winning couple during the finale of Bachelor Pad, an ABC reality competition which featured former The Bachelor bachelorettes and The Bachelorette bachelors competing for a $250,000 cash prize.

1. Natalie, if you could boil down your experience on the Bachelor Pad to one paragraph, what was your overall feeling about being on this show?
By far the most entertaining, craziest, challenging and rewarding four weeks of my life. The entertainment factor came with the territory due to the fact that I got to film a reality TV show with some of my best friends! All of our inside jokes and ridiculous statements that we said on air to make each other laugh will always be with me. It was crazy in a sense that we had no clue what to expect going into it, except that we were competing for money. I had no clue I would fall for Jesse Beck and get dumped in the first week and then go on to explore my romantic feelings for my bestie David Good. The dating/love component was something I didn’t expect nor want. I think the biggest challenge was to orchestrate the game with Dave to ensure we kept our closest pals in the game at whatever cost to keep us safe. They didn’t show a lot of us brainstorming, but BELIEVE me, that was pretty much all we did. It was nerve wracking- I lost 5 lbs during filming! Dave and I were very fortunate to never be in hot water, simply because we were neutral and friends with everyone- the lives of the party so to speak. All of this paid off in the end when David and I were each rewarded with $125k and gained financial freedom from our debt.

2. What was it like to have cameras rolling all the time? How hard was it to get used to being in the public eye?
During my stint on The Bachelor Season 13, I could NOT get used to the cameras. They scared the be-jesus out of me and I got sweaty and nervous whenever they approached causing me to be way too shy and guarded with every word or statement I spoke. It doesn’t matter, however, because through the power of editing, I looked like an idiot. Bachelor Pad was incredible to film, because at that point I had already went on to do so much more with reality television and honestly didn’t even recognize the camera anymore. We even had them on us when we were sleeping (on The Bachelor and Bachelorette they do not) and it didn’t phase me. I maybe got a little too comfortable now looking back at some of my make out scenes…..it was like a less glorified version of Days Of Our Lives- hahaha. As for the public eye, that wasn’t hard at all. I already am a total Midwest chatter box who has long conversations with complete strangers all throughout the day, so for me, I love talking to fans about the show. I’ve actually made a couple friends from girls who have approached and recognized me. So fun! The first couple times I saw myself in a magazine or googled my name, I found it hilarious and embraced it as a once in a lifetime experience;) I’m not one to change my personality or watch what I say for an interview because that’s me and that’s reality TV! I do not have a filter, I’m raw, slightly obnoxious, and I have no intentions of hiding that. Works for me!

3. What was the best part about being on the show?
Hands down being back together, with no distractions from life’s daily interruptions, with some of my best friends and a bunch of other cool people! I can’t tell you how many incredible lifelong friends I’ve made whether they are cast, crew, or friends of cast mates. It’s real life Facebook! The fact that all of us already did Bachelor/ette, some of us got super close before filming. It pretty much felt like they filmed an ultimate dream vacation of me and my friends- AND I got paid! The next best part was living in a mansion, traveling to Vegas in a private jet and staying in a villa, being waited on hand and foot, and crazy expensive experiences I would never had done had it not been for the show. Thanks, Mike Fliess:)

4. What were your favorite challenges on the show? Least favorite?
My favorite challenges were the water balloon toss and the DWTS competition. Reason being they were the only athletic challenges, and being an athlete and ex college soccer player, I love active challenges! David and I would have won the dance competition if we hadn’t completely forgot the routine. Reason we forgot the routine? Well, because I know David as a man’s man and he is ALL dude, and all of the sudden it hit me how feminine he looked and I started laughing so hard and we completely got off track….whoops! Up until the performance that mattered, our dance was flawless. The music ran out before our awesome finish….dang! The Pie Eating Contest and Twister Contests were so lame. Hello- BORING!!! I’d rather watch paint dry. I hate cherry pie and the reason I lost Twister is because there were too many of us on the board and the board ran out of dots! They said right hand red, and there were zero red dot’s left to place my hand on! Gah! I thought the survey challenge was juvenile and ridiculous, but secretly thought it was damn good TV.

5. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
If you are not yourself, a producer will see right through that. When people go over the top trying to get on these shows, it more then likely annoys the producers more then anything. Just be yourself. If you are what they are looking for, they will pick you. If not? Well, don’t quit your day job. They are looking for several different personality types. When you audition, there are probably 100 of you with the same character and it’s only a matter of luck if they pick you.

6. What else have you been up to lately?
I have been keeping extremely busy focusing on fashion. I attend as many fashion shows as humanly possible, write about fashion, style clients, style cast on commercial and movie sets, and most importantly myself for all of my events! I am involved in hosting events and TV shows, as well as having fun as a commercial actress. I’M DEFINITELY NOT trying to be an actress or in commercials, but people keep asking me so I’m not going to say no! It’s a nice little side job;) Socially, I spend as much time with my family as possible back in Chicago and when I’m home in LA, I frequent comedy clubs and hang out with good friends and drink good wine. Riding my bike to the beach, shopping (of course), and style research is a daily must. I’m currently in the process of developing my website www.GetzStyle.com. The site will be all things fashion with a comedic twist. I will be blogging style about TV shows, movies, etc. I will also write weekly articles based on trend and style and have a Q&A advice section. The site will also feature interviews I will conduct with fashionistas, Bachelor/ette contestents, and others. Stay tuned and keep up with me on Twitter: @nataliegetz and Facebook: Search “Natalie Getz” and like my public page for all updates, interviews, articles, and nonsense!

This series will conclude June 22 with 8 Tips On Trying Out For A Reality Television Show. To read other interviews in this series, click here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

Losing The Reality Show – Excerpt 2 From Sink or Swim

Reality Show Rundown Month will be winding down soon, with just two posts left – good ones that you shouldn’t miss. The remaining posts will be an interview with Bachelor Pad winner Natalie Getz on June 20 and 7 Tips on Trying Out for a Reality Television Show on June 22. In the meantime, here is one more excerpt from my reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, which I hope you’ll add to your summer beach reads list.

Cassidy sat poised in her chair as former contestants filed onto the soundstage at WBC in New York. Together, the studio audience and television viewers had watched the recorded footage of her walking the plank. Gabriel would now interview the competitors from the inaugural season one final time. More importantly, he would announce her prize. If it erased most of her debts, then it would at least make this whole embarrassing experience worthwhile.

Cassidy’s heart kicked in her chest and sweat moistened her brow.As one of her old teammates entered, her heart rate skyrocketed for a different reason. Josh Sanchioni slid into a bucket seat, carrying himself stiffer than normal in his sharp gray suit. Studio lights caught his sunbleached strawberry blonde waves, brightening the reddish gold tints.

Cassidy slipped her gaze to his leather shoes. If Josh hadn’t been engaged, they could have been an item. Instead, they’d been good friends until that one evening when the cameras were off and they almost kissed. They’d both realized their mistake and backed away. Things were strained until Josh walked the plank a week later. Tonight, not only did Cassidy have to face Josh, she would probably meet his fiancée.

Her cheeks heating, Cassidy focused on the competitor beside Josh as a distraction. Adam Horton sat erect, hands folded in the lap of his olive green khakis. He wasn’t military, but he dressed like an Army wannabe. His reptilian eyes drilled into Cassidy, his angular face revealing the shape of bones underneath. A blond goatee darkened his pointy chin.
Cassidy shuddered involuntarily. Adam never said much, but he made her uncomfortable just the same. She’d sense someone watching her on the ship and Adam would be lurking in the hatches. Luckily, he only lasted on the show two weeks.

“Before we catch up with our former contestants, I’d like to congratulate Cassidy on a job well done,” Gabriel said in the middle of the circle.

Applause thundered from the audience and a wave of excitement crested over her. Cassidy offered a smile for the cameras as Gabriel finished, “I’m proud to present you with your prize – a luxury vacation for two to the Bahamas on a real cruise ship with $3,000 spending money!”

Dumbfounded, Cassidy watched as a video depicted a majestic ocean liner on the large TV screen. “Set sail with us to the Bahamas, where you can swim with dolphins in turquoise waters, relax on sugar white beaches and explore the island’s history as a haven for pirates,” said the female announcer in a voice-over. “On your voyage, you can enjoy our ten lounges, two outdoor pools, luxury spa, casino, cinema, dynamite shows, and glass walls and elevators that get you up close to the ocean views.”

Another boat? More ocean views? Were they friggin’ serious? A frozen smile hovered on Cassidy’s lips. Too bad she’d already seen the counselor that afternoon and he’d attested that all her screws were still in place. This travesty might be enough to unhinge her.

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As the video montage ended, boos erupted from the crowd and several people jumped to their feet.
“No fair!”
“Give her a real prize!”
“Cheapskates!”

The thrill of the jeers rippled down Cassidy’s spine, their zealousness stunning her. Granted, her little brother had been the heckler to yell “Cheapskates,” but the other supporters weren’t relatives.

“You seem to have some disappointed fans,” Gabriel remarked as a camera panned the crowd. “What do you have to say about the prize, Cassidy?”

She bit down her real opinion and replied, “I’m overwhelmed people care, but this cruise looks a lot more relaxing than my time on Sink or Swim.”

“We knew you’d enjoy it,” Gabriel said. “Who wouldn’t welcome an opportunity to be pampered on a luxury ocean liner?”

Cassidy scoffed inwardly. Perhaps someone who’d been trapped on a schooner for three months.

After the broadcast, Cassidy escaped the sound stage before she blurted out something ungrateful. She glimpsed a production assistant leading her mother, brother, and other special guests off the set, weaning them away from the audience members who’d obtained free tickets for the taping but weren’t invited to the cast party.

When Adam touched her arm in the hallway, the hairs bristled on end.
“I missed you, Cassidy,” he said. “I’ve been counting the days till this reunion.”
“Hi, Adam,” she said with resignation. “Good to see you.”

Reggie lumbered by them in a dark brown suit befitting a Mafia hit man with his broad shoulders and sunken neck. He pivoted and walked backwards. “Hey, Horty, I’m surprised you showed. What’d you last, two episodes? Remember when you spilled paint on the deck and cost our team fifty points? What a klutz.” Laughing, he swaggered down the hallway.

Adam’s mouth pinched into a scowl and red flushed up to his peach fuzz crew cut. “You should have gotten first place. Not him.”

It was nice to be supported, but this guy was too intense. Still, he didn’t deserve to be the butt of Reggie’s ridicule.

“Thanks,” Cassidy said. “Don’t listen to Reggie, he’s a creep. We all thought so. Catch you later, okay? I’ve got to find my family.”

She ducked downstairs to the cafeteria. Balloons and streamers transformed the surroundings into a glittering cascade of blue and gold, the colors in the Sink or Swim logo SOS.

Cassidy accepted a wine glass from a black-coated waiter and glanced around for her mother and fourteen-year-old brother. They’d reunited briefly at the hotel that afternoon, sharing a few hugs and a quick lunch, then Cassidy had to rush off for counseling, hair and makeup. Her family was probably getting a VIP tour of the studio.

Cassidy found herself near a blue and gold decorated table, showcasing an elaborate sheet cake of the Atlantic Devil, her home for the past several weeks. She downed her white wine in one long gulp.

Gabriel slithered up beside her. His dark tailored sports coat hugged his slender build. “I’ve been meaning to tell you, I’m sorry for your loss.” He sounded as if he was extending condolences at a funeral. He hadn’t been that sorry when he’d ordered her to the plank.

Reality Show Rundown Interview with Dating & Relationship Expert Hashim Trends Locario of “I Love New York”

This is the seventh in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad, Big Brother and I Love New York, please visit this link.

Today’s interview is with Hashim Trends Locario, an author and expert on relationships and dating who is no stranger to television. He has appeared on I Love New York on VH1, ABC’s Family’s Switched Up, You Rock Let’s Roll and The Weekly Riff on Fuse, The Tyra Banks Show, The Montel Williams Show, and he also used to host a show on The Dish Network called Live from Midtown.

1. If you could boil down your experience on the reality show I Love New York to one paragraph, what was your overall feeling about being on this show?
I was so excited when I found out I was going to be on that show. I knew that it was going to be big, but I didn’t realize how big it was going to be. Overall, I had a great time but I wished that I could have stayed on the show longer.

2. What was the premise of the show/season that you were on?
The show was 20 guys trying to get with this girl “New York” who was one of the contestants off of “Flavor of Love”. She tried to get with Flava Flav on that show, and since it didn’t work out, they gave her a show to try to find love.

3. What was it like to have cameras rolling all the time? How hard was it to get used to being in the public eye?
I was used to it. I’ve been on reality shows before this one and I’ve done films so I’m used to that type of atmosphere. The difference with this show was they would film almost 24 hours a day.

4. What was the best part about being on the show?
The best part about being on that show was when it actually aired on television. That was a crazy experience because everywhere I went, people recognized me.

5. What were your favorite challenges on the show? Least favorite?
I don’t think I had a favorite. There was a part of the show where we had to model in underwear for New York. I wasn’t really feeling that.

6. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
I would tell them to not hold back. If you hold back, you don’t make good TV and they will cut out a lot of your screen time. I would say be yourself, but bring out the part of yourself that is the most interesting.

7. You’re an expert on relationships and dating. How has appearing on reality shows helped your career?
I think it helped a little as far as promoting me and getting my name out there.

8. What have you been up to lately?
I’ve just been writing a lot and I’m coming out with a new book for men called How to Have Sex with 2 Women a Day. I also have a short movie coming out with the same title. I also have two other books out right now called The Magnificent 10 Crucial Dating Tips for Men and I have a book for women called It’s Your Fault You’re Single: Tips on Finding Mr. Right for women. I also started a web series called The Truth About Relationships. You can check all of this out on my website www.mrlocario.com

9. Where can fans find you online?
You can find me at www.mrlocario.com or my blog site and you can follow me on twitter @realmrlocario

My next interview is with Bachelor Pad winner Natalie Getz on June 20. Bookmark the full interview schedule, with clickable links to the interviews as they become available, here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

Reality Show Rundown Interview with “Shark Tank” Entrepreneur Leslie Haywood

This is the sixth in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad, Big Brother and I Love New York, please visit this link.

Today, I’d like to welcome Leslie Haywood, Founder and President of Charmed Life Products LLC. Leslie is a Charleston, SC mom inventor whose spicy light bulb moment catapulted her into the entrepreneurial ring, leading her to manufacture and market a product that is now sold in over 400 stores across the US, Canada and Sweden and was recently featured on ABC’s reality TV show Shark Tank. Leslie is the inventor of Grill Charms™, the grilling accessory that is revolutionizing the American cook-out. Her vision is to see Grill Charms™ as prominent in the American household as the wine charm. Leslie appeared on two episodes of Shark Tank, in Season 1 and in Season 2. She received three offers from the panelists on Shark Tank and went with the one that required her to give up the smallest stake in the company. Internet and technology mogul Robert Herjavec presented $50,000 in exchange for 25 percent of the equity.

While appearing on a reality show is stressful for all contestants, during her moment in the spotlight, Leslie was coping with the unexpected death of her beloved father. With Father’s Day coming this Sunday, please read this poignant interview about a daughter who would have made her father proud.

1. Leslie, if you could boil down your experience on Shark Tank to one paragraph, what was your overall feeling about being on this show?
My experience was a little out of the ordinary (if there is such a thing as being an “ordinary” reality TV show experience.) The one word that sums it all up is “surreal.” In my case, my father passed very suddenly and unexpected while I was in LA taping. I was on the next flight home and did not do the show, nor did I know (or care at the time) if I ever would. It was by far the most traumatic experience of my life. I did get a call saying that when I was ready, they wanted me back out there to give it another shot. I was so thankful for all of the production team’s compassion, understanding and encouragement.

2. How nerve-wracking was it being on this show and marketing your product?
People want to know what was going on in my head and where that perceived air of confidence came from. None of the sharks knew it at the time, but because of my extenuating circumstances, what started out as a business opportunity, turned into me trying to prove that I still had what it took as a person to even get up in the morning, and had much less do with the TV show. Unfortunately, I’m sure most of your readers can relate to some sort of loss or tragedy, because life is full of it. I’m sure you can relate to my just being proud that I could force myself to even function. In the days and weeks after Pa’s death, I felt like I had lost my “sparkle.” People have always said that I have this certain energy about me. I didn’t really know (and still don’t) EXACTLY what people mean, but whatever it was, I knew (or felt) I had lost it.

Those that watched the show say that I was one of the most confident people they’ve seen, but what people don’t know is that in that moment, I was doing it for my father because I knew that’s what he would have wanted and also simply to see if I could ever sparkle again and NOT ABOUT the 5 people sitting in front of me judging my product and I. The fact that the Sharks loved the product (4 out of 5) was such sweet icing on the cake.

3. What was the best part about being on the show?
Proving to myself that I still had what it took to “do my thing.”

4. What was the hardest part about being on the show?
Dealing with all the emotions at the time. When I went back out there to do the show, it was so bitter sweet and I even had to talk myself out of panic attack or two. As if being in LA shooting a TV show isn’t insane enough, to go back to the exact place… my luggage came down the same baggage claim, the car that picked me up looked the same, the hotel was the same… it was like I was reliving a nightmare that I could not wake up from. So while other “contestants” were dealing with “nerves,” I was trying not to run screaming and crying out of there. The team was so awesome, though! They put me in a room on the complete opposite side of the hotel, the beds were opposite, they tried hard to make it as “different” of an experience as possible. It was a never ending feeling of déjà vu I just couldn’t handle reliving. The folks out there made it bearable. (It’s funny…. It’s been a long time since I have talked about this… I used to not be able to, but I’m finding doing this interview quite therapeutic.) I still can’t watch the first part of my episode, though. Maybe someday.

5. How did appearing on the show help your career?
Sales went NUTS! In the weeks that followed, sales increased about 5000%! I’ve gotten into stores I would not have gotten into, I’ve been able to use my very brief “celebrity” to do more good with Komen in the form of being the honorary chairperson for The Race for the Cure, and hold talks and give speeches about breast cancer awareness, entrepreneurism and inventing. The show has given me a platform and the credibility to help others, which is why I do what I do…. Because it’s FUN and I love helping and encouraging others. It has NEVER been about the money. (I’m not sure if your readers know about the Komen connection, but here is the reason it I am so involved: http://www.grillcharms.com/the-pink-collection

6. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
Going into it with the right attitude is KEY! Make your decision based on “what if nothing goes the way I hoped”… would you still do it just for the experience? If the answer is YES, then do it! It truly is a once in a lifetime EXPERIENCE, but there are no guarantees. You could be the “William Hung” (whom we all laughed at and along with) or the “Omarosa” (whom we all loved to hate). If you go into it “expecting” a certain outcome, you run the risk of tremendous disappointment. Instead, go into with the attitude “No matter what happens, this is an amazing OPPORTUNITY and a once in a lifetime EXPERIENCE.” And no matter what, try and HAVE FUN!

7. What else have you been up to lately? What would you like to share about your company/products?
Just busy busy busy! I have started to dabble in the promotional products and ad specialty industry which is completely different from the traditional retail/wholesale market. I’m doing custom boxes and other packaging for companies who like the product and want to use it for giveaways, promotions, gift bags etc… It’s a great compliment and nice addition to the normal sales.

8. Where can fans and customers find you online?
www.grillcharms.com
Linked In Leslie Haywood
Twitter @grillcharmer

My next interview is with Hashim Trends Locario of I Love New York on June 15. Bookmark the full interview schedule, with clickable links to the interviews as they become available, here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

Reality Show Rundown Interview with Season 4 “Beauty and the Geek” Winner David Olsen

This is the fifth in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad Big Brother and I Love New York, please visit this link.

For today’s interview, I’d like to welcome David Olsen, who won the fourth season of Beauty and the Geek with his partner Jasmine. What is it like to make it till the end of a reality show and be declared a winner? Read David’s exciting story below!

David Olsen holds fellow contestant Katie Roberson during the Prom Challenge.

1. If you could boil down your experience on Beauty and the Geek to one paragraph, what was your overall feeling about being on this show?
Well, that’s pretty difficult task. The whole process, start to finish, took nearly a year of my life (a fantastic year) and that’s not easy to summarize. I loved the whole experience (even the parts I hated if that’s not too paradoxical) and it was a roller coaster ride of emotion. I’ve often compared it to a semester in college on speed, but I could also say it was a heightened moment of life. Everything felt more intense from joy to sadness. For me, as someone who studies narrative structure, I also was very self-aware that I was in a story. Now I’ve often felt that as I’m a role-player, but this was unusual since it was also real. It’s a difficult sensation to describe, but it was a weird post-modern feeling as I sometimes analyzed my life as a protagonist in a story arc.

2. What was it like to have cameras rolling all the time? How hard was it to get used to being in the public eye?
It’s like ordinary life. People in the 21st century are on camera all the time, especially in urban environments; they just might not realize it. The big difference was that the cameras were a little more obvious. That said, my attitude did change over time. Near the beginning, I was a little more circumspect about what I said, deeply aware how my words could serve as the source of deep embarrassment and was sometimes relieved when the cameras left me alone. Over the course of the show, I felt more pressure to be entertaining and say witty things so I could be seen more. To be clear, this was self-induced pressure and not external from the producers. But if a camera crew was filming a conversation and suddenly walked away, I would be insulted that I wasn’t “interesting” enough for them to pay attention to me.

3. What was the best part about being on the show?
Well, winning a lot of money definitely ranks up there. Though I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention the fact that I made many new friends. We may not have known each other long, but when you’re in that pressure cooker of a situation, the friendships formed are true.

4. What were your favorite challenges on the show? Least favorite?
This is an interesting question because it depends. My favorite challenge to watch was my least favorite to do and vice-versa. At the time I absolutely hated making a superhero costume for my partner, but watching my trials and tribulations as a viewer long after the fact was actually humorous. Conversely, massaging all the girls was kind of fun at the time, but boring to watch. Though my favorite moment was winning the wine-making challenge, since no one expected us to win that and we pummeled the competition. I was actually happier in that moment than when I won the show itself. Still, from an actual growth perspective, I have the deepest appreciation for the rap challenge. When we first were given it, I had no idea how I’d write and perform an autobiographical rap in less than 24 hours, and while my performance wasn’t as good as it could have been (since I forgot most of my lyrics), it challenged me in a way that made me grow as a human being and I was pleased with what I ultimately came up with.

5. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
If I had the silver bullet to get on a reality show, I’d use it myself as I had too much fun and have been trying to get back into that world, so I don’t know any top secret information that will get someone a callback. That said, there are some tricks. As much of a cliche that it is, be yourself. Casting directors are very good at spotting phony people and they’re looking for authenticity above all. Another is try to be unique. If everyone is playing the Jersey Shore angle by appearing like a dirtbag, wear a suit (but only if you feel comfortable in one, as per my first piece of advice). Finally, there’s the old show biz adage of show, don’t tell. Don’t say you’re edgy, be edgy (I leave it as an exercise to the reader of how exactly one becomes edgy).

6. What effect did winning have on you — did you have any special use for the prize money? What was it like going about your normal life after so many people saw you win on TV? Were you surprised to win?
This is going to sound really boring, but I just invested the prize money. It seemed like the wisest course of action. Going back to my normal life was frankly a little too easy. I was hoping it might springboard into something more, but it never really did. Sure, I occasionally got recognized on the street, which is always fun and a boost to the ego, but aside from having a fun story to tell people you just met at cocktail parties, it wasn’t all that impactful. Although I didn’t really tell anyone at the time (for fear of jinxing it and looking arrogant), I could read the tea leaves of the various internet message boards that it was highly likely I’d end up winning, so while pleasant to receive confirmation of that, it wasn’t terribly surprising when I did actually win.

7. What have you been up to lately?
Man, I wish I could tell you something truly awesome. I bought a condo in Cambridge, Massachusetts about a year ago, which has been great. Being on the show awakened in me an interest to work more with media so I’ve done background movie work as an extra, though it’s not quite the same as being the focus of the camera. I did some work on a video game recently so if you have a PlayStation 3, you should buy Slam Bolt Scrappers because it’s a really fun game and I’m not just saying that. I’ve actually done some preliminary work on a new reality show idea, but unfortunately, that’s stalled out for the moment. So, I’m actually sort of looking around for my next project; if anyone has any great ideas, they should let me know!

8. Where can fans find you online?
I think I’m on all the social networking sites, but hardly use any of them. Most fans seem to gravitate to my Facebook page where I’m the
most active (which isn’t saying much), though I also have a blog hidden in plain sight on Livejournal which I post to irregularly. It’s public, though not obvious and I just write about whatever I happen to be thinking about that day.

My next interview is with Leslie Haywood of Shark Tank on June 13. Bookmark the full interview schedule, with clickable links to the interviews as they become available, here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

Reality Show Rundown Interview with Shawn Bakken of “Beauty and the Geek”

This is the fourth in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad, Big Brother and I Love New York, please visit this link.

Today, I’ve enjoyed learning more about Shawn Bakken, a cast member on Season 1 of Beauty and the Geek, a show in which eight “beauties” and 8 “geeks” were paired up to compete against the other seven couples for $250,000 and other prizes. Shawn and his partner Scarlet finished in third place and made it to the second-to-last episode. Shawn is an assistant scoutmaster, a blogger, and is enrolled in the MBA program at Augsburg College in Minneapolis.

1. Shawn, if you could boil down your experience on Beauty and the Geek to one paragraph, what was your overall feeling about being on this show?
Being on Beauty and the Geek was unforgettable. Some experiences were an absolute delight and some I may regret for the rest of my life (primarily because my friends love to torment me about them), but I’m truly glad that I was on the show. I learned some new skills, made some good friends and done things that I never would have considered beforehand because I didn’t have the experience or confidence to try them.

2. What was it like to have cameras rolling all the time? How hard was it to get used to being in the public eye?
I was self-conscious at first. They could show any of it to the entire country, but more importantly, my family would be watching. Eventually, I got used to having the cameras around and wouldn’t think about them too much. (If I wanted them to go away, I’d read a book for 30 seconds.) It may have been easier to ignore them than if I’d been on another reality show because we spent most of our time in a mansion; when we were outside and interacting with the public, they kept the cameras well-hidden.

Shawn and Scarlet

3. What was the best part about being on the show?
The best part was probably just spending time with so many attractive girls and smart guys in the mansion. Back home, I had a very limited social life. During the first episode, someone mentioned how one of the guys “only goes out twice a month.” She was referring to me. I was living in a basement, working with one other person and not interacting with many people on a regular basis. Suddenly, I had a bunch of housemates and being able to spend all my time with them was awesome.

4. What were your favorite challenges on the show? Least favorite?
I think my favorite challenge was giving a massage to the beauties. I may not have done well, but after learning what not to do, I’m much better at giving people neck or shoulder rubs now. The outdoor challenge didn’t go over well. As the “Assistant Boy Scout Master”, my partner and I were expected to win the race. I ended up getting dehydrated and exhausted and threw up on the side of the mountain. Needless to say, we didn’t win and my partner spent the rest of the day yelling at me about it.

Honestly, though, I disliked getting phone numbers the most for two reasons. One: we were in an outdoor mall, most of the women were shopping and I don’t like interrupting people when they’re busy. Two: we could tell them anything except the truth. “If you say it’s for a reality show, it doesn’t count.” Boy Scouts are supposed to be trustworthy. Getting phone numbers under false premises… I honestly felt dirty afterward.

5. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
Aside from “Don’t do it”? Someone asked me about that while the show was on the air (he ended up getting cast for Season 2) and I told him, “Just be yourself.” The problem is that being yourself in front of the cameras isn’t always what ends up on people’s TV screens. If you want to be on a reality show, don’t be surprised if the producers decide to flush your reputation down the toilet.

6. What was it like going about your normal life after so many people saw you on TV?
I’m sure life would have changed a lot more if Beauty and the Geek had aired on a major network instead of the WB, but I still got recognized on the street from time to time. People would pause, look at me for a bit, then build up the courage to ask if I had been on TV. Or sometimes they would start with “You look really familiar” and I would give them hints until they figured it out. It wasn’t like a constant stream of interruptions during the day and they were always pleasant exchanges, so it wasn’t a big deal.

7. What have you been up to lately? Can you tell us about your blog?
I’m currently enrolled in the MBA program at Augsburg College in Minneapolis, MN. (Some people have suggested that I’m addicted to being in school.)
My blog doesn’t follow a single theme. The posts range from entries about Beauty and the Geek to “Sayings of the Day” to pointing out that the clothing company Wet Seal sells a shirt that reads, “If Your Single, So Am I.”

8. Where can fans find you online?
My blog address is www.shawnbakken.net and I write occasional tweets on @shawnbakken. As you can see, I’ve gone to great lengths to conceal my identity.

My next interview is with David Olsen, Beauty and the Geek Season 4 winner, on June 9. Bookmark the full interview schedule, with clickable links to the interviews as they become available, here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

Reality Show Rundown Interview with Chef Betty Fraser of “Top Chef” Season 2

This is the third in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad, I Love New York and Big Brother, please visit this link.

Today, I’ve enjoyed learning more about Chef Betty Fraser from Top Chef Season 2. Betty is the owner of the award-winning Hollywood, CA restaurant Grub, (pictured below) the long-established catering company As You Like It Catering, and also runs the caf-style commissary at Hollywood’s Red Studios. Betty’s exposure on Top Chef has opened the door to a great many opportunities. She has become a frequent guest chef at food and wine events throughout the nation, has appeared on numerous local L.A. TV shows, and just recently appeared as a guest panelist at the first reality show convention, Reality Rocks.

1. Betty, if you could boil down your experience on Top Chef to one paragraph, what was your overall feeling about being on this show?
The Top Chef experience was two parts excitement mixed with a big serving of stress. While I think most people understand that the ‘reality’ in reality show can mean a lot of things, on Top Chef those competitions are real. And what was a big eye-opener for me was that I was actually a competitive person. I went in to it thinking it was just going to be a lot of fun, but all it took was to hear the word “Go” on the first challenge and I turned in to Kobe Bryant!

2. What was the best part about being on the show?
Having the chance to meet so many great chefs and watch them work was something I really enjoyed. I still stay in touch with a lot of them. I think we’re all pulling for each other because of the shared experience we have. But the most fun came afterwards. I’ve had the chance to travel and make a lot of guest appearances at food events around the country which I love doing. And when I’m out and someone comes up to me with, “Aren’t you…?” that’s a wild feeling that reminds me of the reach of television and how many people enjoy the show.

3. What were your favorite challenges on the show? Least favorite?
Considering that my restaurant Grub serves California Comfort Food, it’s pretty easy to put the “Comfort Food Challenge” at the top of the list. And then winning it and having a chance to cook with Al Roker on the Today Show and having the recipe served at TGIF’s was amazing. My least favorite challenge was a “Sushi Challenge.” Not because of the challenge itself, but because they got us up at 3:00 in the morning to go to a fish market. I like fish…but not before the sun comes up.

4. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
First thing I’d suggest is to learn about Pandora’s Box. Because once you reach people in their living rooms, that box is opened and there’s no going back. Reality shows are entertainment so big personalities have become a prerequisite. But what a lot of people don’t think about is the criticism you are opening yourself up for. I think people watch reality TV as much for who they like as who they don’t like. And people aren’t shy about sharing their feelings on chat boards. When the comments are nice, you feel great. But when they lay in to you, especially when they have no idea of the kind of person you really are, it can really hurt. If you don’t have a thick skin, then being on a reality show might not be the best decision.


5. Tell us about Grub and what else you have been up to lately?
Thanks for asking and Grub is doing great! It’s going on ten years now and it’s still a joy to go to work. Grub is set in a 1920’s converted bungalow in Hollywood so everything we do is to create a sense of “home.” And that means we see our guests more like family than just customers walking in off the street. It’s a high-energy place, and can get a little crazy, but at the center of it all is a lot of fun and some great food. We’re all really proud of what we’ve been able to create and hope to continue riding the wave.

6. What are a few of your favorite dishes to cook?
The most fun for me as a chef is taking a classic dish and updating it to create something new. And the concept is something I love sharing with home chefs when I’m teaching a class. My favorite right now is braised short ribs. I also run a catering company and it was requested by a client about a month ago. It has set me off on trying all types of new ways to serve it. My thinking is that food should be fun and serve as a platform for individual creativity. We play a game in the restaurant called “Add Three” where we’ll take a classic recipe, say a Mac & Cheese, and then add three ingredients you wouldn’t expect. Sometimes it’s a big miss but those times when it works it feels like you’ve created something special. So don’t be afraid to experiment in the kitchen. It’s like they say, “Try and fail but don’t fail to try.”

7. Where can fans find you online?
We update our Grub website at www.grub-la.com with some of the new things we have going on. I try to get in to my Facebook page as much as I can and update. That runs the gambit between an appearance I may be making or something special we’re doing at Grub to the fact that one of my dogs got “skunked!”

My next interview is with Shawn Bakken of Beauty and the Geek on June 7. Bookmark the full interview schedule, with clickable links to the interviews as they become available, here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

Reality Show Rundown Month – Interview With Michelle Costa of Big Brother 10

This is the second in a series of interviews with former reality show contestants, an idea inspired by my new reality show-themed mystery novel Sink or Swim, Where Reality TV Turns to Murder. For more information on Sink or Swim, and the interview schedule which features contestants from Survivor, Top Chef, Beauty and the Geek, Shark Tank, Bachelor Pad, Big Brother and I Love New York, please visit this link.

Today I’m thrilled to have Michelle Costa of Big Brother 10 , The Portuguese Princess, joining me. This is a special interview for me as Michelle has been so supportive of Sink or Swim. Her endorsement appears on the back cover of the paperback and inside the e-book editions, and she also invited me to be a guest on her radio show and has been actively promoting the book on her social networks. I’d really love to see Michelle on Big Brother All Stars! But first, let’s hear her thoughts about being on Big Brother 10.

1. What was the most challenging part about being on Big Brother?
There were a few challenges I faced being in the Big Brother house. I had no access to TV, phone, Internet, reading, writing and singing. And of course, being away from your family and friends for over three months.

2. What was it like to have cameras rolling all the time? How hard was it to get used to?
There were cameras everywhere. We never saw a cameraman as they are behind the walls behind a two-way mirror. I was actually told to stop talking to the cameras so I had no troubles there, lol.

3. What was the best part about being on the show?
The entire experience was amazing during and now the aftermath. The only thing I would have changed was to be the winner and take home the $500,000, ughhhh.

4. What advice would you give to someone who is considering applying for a reality show?
The best advice I can give is to be yourself. Never try to be who you think they want. BE YOURSELF.

5. Tell us about your radio show.
My radio show is called MANIC MONDAYS with RAD RON. It’s on blogtalkradio.com and stream thru podcast. We discuss reality TV and sports, but mainly reality TV. It’s been over two years and I love it. (Note: Michelle’s co-host, RAD RON, Ronald “Ron” Radkiewicz, passed away May 31, 2011 shortly after this interview was completed.)

6. What else have you been up to lately? Are you interested in appearing on any other reality shows?
I’ve been working on doing marketing and promotions. I travel all over the USA doing charities and reality events. I want to be on Big Brother All Stars. That’s my next goal. Oh yeah, and to win All Stars.

7. Where can fans find you online?
Fans can follow me on Facebook, Twitter and MySpace.

My next interview is with Betty Fraser from Top Chef on June 3. Bookmark the full interview schedule, with clickable links to the interviews as they become available, here. Do you have a few minutes to help me give some buzz to Sink or Swim? Get 8 ideas here that can make a big difference!

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